Speak less words of complaint
and more of forgiveness
as complaints bring about hatred
while forgiveness is wisdom.

Speak less words of sarcasm
and more of respectfulness
as sarcasm reveals disparagement
while respectfulness increases understanding.

Speak less words of harm
and more of thoughtfulness
as harm causes contradiction
while thoughtfulness develops friendship.

Speak less words of command
and more of discussion
as command forces acceptance
while discussion is true leadership.

Speak less words of criticism
and more of encouragement
as criticism creates barriers
while encouragement nurtures potential.

- Venerable Master Chin Kung